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Abuser Information

Below are some facts about domestic violence and abusers:

  • 96% of reported family violence is perpetrated by males and most victims are female.

  • Men can also be victims of domestic violence.

  • Most men do not batter their spouses.

  • Non-violent men can play an important role in finding solutions to the problem.

  • Men who are violent are often unhappy and want to change.

  • Everyone will benefit from a less-violent school and society.

  • They are extremely jealous.

  • They haven't learned how to communicate their feelings non-violently.

  • May lack the verbal skills required to negotiate non-violent conflict resolution and have poor impulse control and a rigid style of demanding and controlling behaviors.

  • Many violent episodes have no clear external antecedents or may be misinterpretation of the partner's behavior.

  • Batterers find ways to isolate their spouses and children in order to decrease the likelihood of detection and assurance.

  • Male batterers believe men should be “in charge” of women.

  • They have low self-esteem.

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Read more about A Safe Place's Abuser Services.

If you would like more information about A Safe Place, please call us at 847-731-7165 or email us at info@asafeplaceforhelp.org.

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24-hour hotline: 847-697-2380

Ayuda en espanol: 847-697-9740

The 24-hour HELP LINE, 847-249-4450; TTY 847-249-6557, can provide assistance in accessing services.

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Help Line: 847-249-4450 Office: 847-731-7165 TTY: 847-249-6557

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