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Resiliency: Boys and Domestic Violence

Not all boys who witness domestic violence become batterers or tolerate abuse.

  • Their interpretation of the experience.

  • How they have learned to survive and cope with stress.

  • The availability of support people, such as friends, relatives, teachers and other adults.

  • Their ability to accept support and assistance from adults.

  • Psychological “hardness” – the innate ability to resist negative factors in the home.

  • Exposure to more positives than negatives in the family.

  • Development of self-esteem and strong social skills.

  • Good peer relationships.

  • A sense of hope.

  • High maternal empathy and support.

  • Opportunities to help others.

  • Respect for others, empathy.

  • Hobbies and other creative pursuits in which to find refuge.

  • Development of some sense of control in one's life.

If you would like more information about A Safe Place, please call us at 847-731-7165 or email us at info@asafeplaceforhelp.org.

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24-hour hotline: 847-697-2380

Ayuda en espanol: 847-697-9740

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Everyone has the right to a violence-free, safe and healthy life.
Help Line: 847-249-4450 Office: 847-731-7165 TTY: 847-249-6557

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